Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend – Avoid These 3 Mistakes To Win Her Back
Don’t make these devastating mistakes if you want to win back your ex girlfriend.
All right, your girlfriend dumped you and your feeling lonely, anxious and desperate. Many of us have been there, including myself, and it feels horrible. I’m assuming if you’re reading this that you really want to win back your ex girlfriend and you are willing to do anything to make it happen.
However before you can do that you need to calm yourself down, because if your like most guys your very likely to end up doing something that will ruin your chances of ever winning her back again. In this short article I am going to tell you the common mistakes you must avoid if you want to win back your ex girlfriend back.
Let’s get right to it. These are the top 3 mistakes you must absolutely avoid! Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
Constant calling and texting is the most common mistake. I was guilty of this one myself and trust me when I say this, it just doesn’t help you at all, you will not win her back by doing this. I understand, you are hurt and every part of you is aching to talk to her, you want to talk things over and convince her that breaking up with you was a mistake, or perhaps you just want to hear her voice. Texting her will only do one thing…it will annoy her. You must give her some space and time to feel what it will be like to be without you, chances are she will begin to miss you and wonder what you are up to. She may even call you. Giving her space will look good for you later on when you implement your full game plan to win her back.
Sending flowers to her. This one is a bad idea unless of course you did something really horrible. Why would you be rewarding her with a gift for dumping you and causing you so much pain and heartache? It makes you look desperate and just sends all the wrong signals to her. Additionally, this tactic can come off as being manipulative. You’re not sending her the flowers out of the goodness of your heart, you’re doing because you want something in return, it’s almost like you’re trying to bribe her in an effort to win back your ex girlfriend back. She is not dumb and will realize this and it’s only going to make you look bad…so just don’t do it.
Last but not least on our list of things that you must absolutely avoid doing if you want to win her back is…drumroll please; Do not profess your undying love for her and tell her that you will be there for her if she changes her mind. It may feel like you’re just letting her how much you really care for her, but, in truth what you are saying to her is that she can walk all over you, date other men, hurt you and do what ever she wants and you will still be there for her when and if she changes her mind. Using mystery is a much better idea. Leave her unsure as to what your true feelings are. It will create a spark of curiosity that will perhaps fuel her to seek you out.
The list of potential mistakes when trying to win her back goes on and on, but the three discussed in this article are the worst. Avoid them at all costs! It will require control and patience, but if you follow the advice in this article and combine it with an effective game plan to win back your ex girlfriend then you can be certain you will pleasantly surprised at the results you will get. I’m rooting for you, I’ve been through the same thing, I have used these techniques successfully and you can also.