Get Your Ex Back Starting Today – A Step-By-Step Plan
READ THIS CAREFULLY; if you want to get your ex back this may be the most important thing you’ll ever read.
Did you get dumped by a person you believed you’d be with for a lifetime? In life there are many trials we must face and some of them are extremely painful. Getting dumped by someone you love deeply is one of them. Many of us have been through it and it can take a very long time to get over a breakup. Some people can never get over it at all. You may want to call and beg for them to take you back or perhaps you want to get even. Don’t think about getting back at your ex instead get him or her back into your loving arms again where they belong because no matter how bad the breakup was you can get your ex back. It doesn’t even make any difference if they are seeing somebody else. A word of caution though, make sure before you do this that you truly do want him or her back in your life and not that your doing it just for the satisfaction of it. Too many people just want to prove to them selves they can get their ex back without even really wanting to.
You can win back your lost relationship, you just need to know how to do it.
It is important that before you do try to get your ex back that you take inventory of the relationship. You must figure out exactly what went wrong in the relationship. Now obviously if you cheated or something similar then the main issue would be obvious, but even if you did cheat there most likely were other issues going on on in the relationship as well. Think back to all the fights and disagreements and look deep into it to discover the things that you could have done better if you could do it over again. This is critical because once you get your ex back you don’t want to make the same mistakes all over again.
You may be tempted to use guilt or manipulation as a tactic but even if that did work, it wouldn’t work for long. Avoid using guilt and manipulation to get your ex to come back to you. Do you really want him or her to come back because they pity you or feel forced to? Of course not, you want them to want you back.
The secret sauce of the get your ex back plan is the no contact phase. This means that you do not under any circumstances contact your ex for awhile (about a month). No texting, no calls, no emails, not even a smoke signal. Nothing! This will turn the tables in your favor, it will create a strong sense of loss in your ex, a void. They will become curious of what you are up to and begin to miss you, something that would not happen if you don’t stop contact. In many cases you may find that your ex calls you out of the blue and wants to talk to you.
During the no contact phase make sure to stay busy.Hang out with friends, focus on work and hobbies, go to the gym you get the idea. Do things that make you happy and keep you bust because this time will be difficult, you will likely want to call your ex. DO NOT!!! Keeping busy will help a lot and when you see the results you will be happy that you listened to this advice.
You can’t afford to make blunders at this point, so before you make a move, make sure you know exactly what you must do.